For past few days, i have been facing colliding thoughts that do i really need someone to make me complete, i believe to some extent at some point, yes we need someone to share. we all have purpose to live, making each other's life less difficult, isn't? so sharing your life with someone eases you a lot.... but what if you go ahead on that line & that person is so self-confined that it really invades you deeply....
I think you should be complete prior inviting somebody in ur life as nobody fills a void for you, as there will be times when you are alone & you have to get started yourself..... "EVERYTHING DIES ALONE"
Inter-dependence or moreover that symbiotic relationship is nice to have but it should not be the only thing for survival & sustainance. it is really hard to be solitary as human nature is not modelled for the same...... that why we say that man is a social animal but at the deep of my heart i feel that we need to be happy with self, im learning this.....
But how long, Need is such a strong word. Having someone in your life because you want to share your life experiences together . I don't think having someone really completes you, it may be more fulfilling as opposed to being alone for some.
"'IM NOT IN DENIAL, I'M JUST VERY SELECTIVE ABOUT THE REALITY I ACCEPT"
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"'IM NOT IN DENIAL, I'M JUST VERY SELECTIVE ABOUT THE REALITY I ACCEPT"
Haaa !
is that your own or you liked it and thought to add it as a Tagline?! whichever way, it's pretty interesting!
came accross your blog through linkedin :-)... will like to write something on the same...
well i feel that love itself is such a great feeling...but the person with whom you are in love is just an object and not the source of it... the source is your own heart...you can only love someone when you feel it from your heart ...
i agree with you .. that you really dont want someone to "complete" you..
but its really worth being in love and sharing yourself with the person you are in love with..
what do u think?... its an old article...your views are still the same or has the Time taught you something else??
This is an interesting topic. When you strongly believe you need someone at some point of time to make life complete implies you have your expectations of how he should be. This is little risky, nowadays most marriages including love marriages ends up making both male & female unhappy as people have their own expectations deep down their mind. Only if you are able to let go of those then you can pair and share with the one to make things complete else he might not fulfill your expectations which will end up pain for both. as you rightly asked; in my opinion, fullness happens within; hence you really don't need any other person to make your life complete.
Nice Thought. really appreciate your thinking
Nice one leena...Diwaker
I think you don`t believe in magic of life. Try to create the magic :)
well said Leena...........
Life is good to live alone......
but don't u think it would be better with someone........
Well...... I want to be free as air ......exploring the life and the world .......
And yes, everyone dies alone...
we will die someday
Touching.. Plus like you to know that you just shared some valuable thoughts with a unknown person. Thanks for being so sharing :_)
Nicemith
A famous quotation from a text or speech,
" You do not need to be loved, not at the cost of yourself. The single relationship that is truly crucial and central in a life is the relationship to the self. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the only one you will never loose. " - Jo Coudert
So.......
Be yourself.....
Be Pure.....
Be loved by yourself......
Regards,
Sam
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